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How I've Been

9/4/2018

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I wish I could tell you when it started -- 
Maybe it began the day I lost 
the best job I’d ever had. 
It was a Thursday. Sunny. 
Before I was let go, my boss bought me coffee.
It isn’t working… they said. 
I remember searching 
for something I could fix. 
 
Maybe it started with the breakup. 
Negatives began to feel normal.
Comfort was mistaken for love. 
I felt alone in the bed we shared.
You can only love someone as much 
as they will let you. 
And who you share your life with 
will shape what that life becomes. 
It wasn’t fair to keep something 
That wasn’t meant for me. 
 
Maybe it started upon impact. 
When I swerved, crashed – 
Bounced between two realities.
I’m thankful that no one was hurt. 
A year ago, a night out at a bar 
put me behind a row of them.
I caught a case, the only one of my life.
 
When I sobered up I found myself
 tossing on a two inch thick mattress. 
Called upon only by my last name. 
I hadn’t slept in days.
It had been longer since I’d seen daylight.
In that moment, the fluorescent glow 
convinced me time was only an illusion. 
Would I ever leave? 
 
Of course I did. 
I stood shakily before my maker 
He wanted to get it in before lunch.
So he waved me through,
time spent and a few odd jobs.
 
On foot for months and miles, 
I finally got my wheels back. 
Every time I cranked my engine,
a beep and hum antagonized me. 
And I could have funded a short film with 
the amount of money it cost.
Hours spent at meetings and classes. 

But what I got in return --  
My sobriety. 
One year yesterday.
I am single. And Okay.
I have a new job, and I’m still learning,
I’m happy. 
 
Sometimes where we think we’re going
is only a placeholder for where 
we’re supposed to be.

I still don't have all the answers
But I have another year of life experience 
And a chance to fall in love
with myself again.  
That's how I've been. 


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Cheryl
9/5/2018 07:36:56 am

really beautiful it's a pleasure to read you and discover you. a woman who opens up talking about her wounds and struggles to get out is so beautiful and so strong. I hope to get to know you better with your stories. 😘

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Youngster
9/5/2018 01:06:58 pm

This is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing this with us you're one of the most amazing people ever. Much love to you

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Deb J
9/5/2018 06:27:30 pm

Said it on IG, I'll say it again. I'm super proud of you for picking yourself up from your rock bottom and making your life count. Sometimes the places that rock us the most are the ones that put us back where we need to be. Much love.

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     is a writer, artist and human/animal rights activist based in Echo Park- Los Angeles, CA. The Stephens College graduate loves poetry, camping with her rowdy friends and tequila of many varieties. 

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